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What Has Fear Stolen from You?

Confronting the Invisible Barrier to Accomplishment

Gholamreza Zare
5 min readSep 4, 2024

Fear. It’s a powerful force, isn’t it? We don’t always talk about it, but it quietly shapes so many of our decisions. Like a shadow, it lurks behind our thoughts, tugging us back from the brink of action, whispering reasons why we shouldn’t try, why we should hold back, why we should stay in our comfort zone. But here’s the real question: what has fear prevented you from accomplishing? It’s easy to forget just how much fear controls our choices until we sit down and realize what we’ve missed out on — what dreams we’ve left to gather dust — all because we were too scared to take that leap.

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Now, fear isn’t inherently bad. It’s a survival instinct, after all. Your brain is hardwired to protect you from danger, to avoid pain and rejection, and to keep you from stepping into the unknown. The problem, though, is that fear often gets overzealous. It doesn’t just protect you from real threats — it throws up a wall whenever you consider something uncertain or uncomfortable. Want to start a business? Fear tells you it’s too risky. Thinking about switching careers? Fear reminds you how much you might lose. Hoping to ask someone out, try a new hobby, or move to a new city? Fear whispers, “What if you fail?”

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Gholamreza Zare
Gholamreza Zare

Written by Gholamreza Zare

Tech enthusiast & writer on a journey of self-improvement and software engineering. Reach me at ghrzarea@gmail.com. Explore more: https://amazon.com/author/zare

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