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How Did I Escape the Web of Self-Deception?

7 Steps to Healing from Toxic Relationships

Gholamreza Zare
16 min readJan 9, 2024
The journey of self-discovery and healing in relationships

Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a conversation, only to realize you’re actually arguing with your own reflection in the mirror? That was me, navigating my toxic relationships, like a captain steering a ship through a fog of self-deception. It was a dance, a delicate ballet, where I pirouetted around red flags, wearing blindfolds fashioned out of hope and denial.

But then, one day, the music stopped. The stage lights dimmed, and I was left standing in the spotlight of reality. That was the moment I began to ask myself, ‘How did I escape the intricate web of self-deception?’ It wasn’t an overnight revelation, nor was it a simple journey. It was a voyage through seven crucial steps, each a chapter in my story of healing and growth.

In this article, I’m going to share this journey with you. From recognizing the masquerade of my own illusions to finally stepping into the daylight of self-awareness, each step was a key in unlocking the chains of my toxic relationships. So, grab a cup of coffee, get comfy, and join me as we embark on this journey together. It’s time to unravel the knots of confusion and find our way back to the clarity and strength that lies within each of us.

Step 1: The Mirror of Truth —

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Gholamreza Zare
Gholamreza Zare

Written by Gholamreza Zare

Tech enthusiast & writer on a journey of self-improvement and software engineering. Reach me at ghrzarea@gmail.com. Explore more: https://amazon.com/author/zare

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