Are You the Captain of Your Destiny?

Navigating Life with Principles as Your Compass

Gholamreza Zare
5 min readApr 3, 2024

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Imagine you’re at the helm of a ship, the captain of your destiny, navigating through the vast ocean of life. Each wave is a challenge, each island a new opportunity, and the horizon? That’s your dreams, baby, shimmering in the distance, calling you forth. Now, you could just set the sails to “whatever” and see where the currents take you, letting chance and fleeting opportunities dictate your course. But let’s face it, that’s about as effective as trying to climb Mount Everest in flip-flops. Instead, I propose a different strategy: navigating by a set of principles. This compass guides you not just toward what you can do but toward what you should do.

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Defining success is a personal quest, akin to choosing the perfect Netflix series on a Friday night — it’s different for everyone, and what works for me might not work for you. But here’s my take: success isn’t about the accolades on my wall or the zeros in my bank account. It’s about feeling like the captain of my soul, steering my life in a direction that’s true to who I am and what I believe in. It’s about creating a legacy that’s not measured in likes or shares but in the positive impact I’ve made on the world around me. It’s about living in alignment with my values, and I encourage you to do the same.

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Gholamreza Zare

Tech enthusiast & writer on a journey of self-improvement and software engineering. Reach me at ghrzarea@gmail.com. Explore more: https://amazon.com/author/zare